"I wanted to believe, and I did believe, that things would get better. But later, I discovered, that you have to have this sense of faith that what you’re moving toward, it is already done. It’s already happened. And you live that you’re already there. That you’re already in that community. Part of that sense of one family, one house, if you visualize, if you can even have faith that it’s there, for you, it is already there."